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info@auraclemusic.co.uk - 22 Jul 2007 09:54 GMT
I think a number of you are being overly nasty in your comments
against Danny's book draft.  This is a man who has suffered greatly at
the hands of PEOPLE -- not thunderstorms.  People can willfully harm
someone -- thunderstorms can't.

I would submit that you look closely at your own motivations for
discounting what he has to say.  Are you current NASA employees?  Are
you afraid that your world view will disintegrate if you acknowledge
that such things as bullying exist?  Until you walk in another man's
shoes, perhaps it might be best not to judge him so harshly.

Cheers,
catface
Jimbob Jumpback - 22 Jul 2007 14:57 GMT

>I would submit that you look closely at your own motivations for
>discounting what he has to say.  Are you current NASA employees?  Are
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>Cheers,
>catface
I have been handicapped all of my life. I fell at work in 2000 and
among other injuries, I broke my knee. Since I have suffered from
depression, and a host of other ailments. My previous employer left me
dangling in the wind after 6 months. I haven't written a book, nor
erected a web site chronicling my ill treatment.
Danny needs to do what the several shrinks have told him to do, and
let it go. Live deals you some bad cards, but one must accept
responsibility for his own actions and get on with his life having
learned his lessons.
I read Danny's work, and by his own hand has written facts that state
that NASA dealt with him very fairly.
Healing takes place when one pulls himself up by the bootstraps and
goes to therapy (either physical or mental) and continues on with his
life. The writings may be cathartic, but are best kept private for his
accusations and his writings don't match up. Danny seems more
comfortable wallowing in his self pity, too bad, because he seems to
have so much to offer.
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Danny Deger - 22 Jul 2007 17:06 GMT
> >I would submit that you look closely at your own motivations for
> >discounting what he has to say.  Are you current NASA employees?  Are
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> >Cheers,
> >catface

Thanks for the kind words.  In spite of how the tone of my posts come
across, I am having fun here.  I must say having iron clad
documentation helps a lot.  Without it I wouldn't have a case at all.

Danny Dege
tdadamemd-spamblock-@excite.com - 22 Jul 2007 18:55 GMT
>From catface:
> I think a number of you are being overly nasty in your comments
> against Danny's book draft.  This is a man who has suffered greatly at
> the hands of PEOPLE -- not thunderstorms.  People can willfully harm
> someone -- thunderstorms can't.

Pain can be inflicted.  But suffering requires the necessary
ingredient of self pity.

'Thunderstorm' was a metaphor.  Danny's flight lead was a person.
Danny believes that this person tried to kill him.  If you were a
military pilot, catface, you would understand how ludicrous this
belief is.

As for suffering at NASA, Danny could have easily circumvented the
situation at several stages.  He chose to battle it head on.  He
lost.  Big surprise.

> I would submit that you look closely at your own motivations for
> discounting what he has to say.  Are you current NASA employees?  Are
> you afraid that your world view will disintegrate if you acknowledge
> that such things as bullying exist?  Until you walk in another man's
> shoes, perhaps it might be best not to judge him so harshly.

Actually I have faced similar situations.  I chose a much different
strategy for dealing with them.

~ CT
tdadamemd-spamblock-@excite.com - 22 Jul 2007 19:33 GMT
I wrote:
> 'Thunderstorm' was a metaphor.  Danny's flight lead was a person.
> Danny believes that this person tried to kill him.  If you were a
> military pilot, catface, you would understand how ludicrous this
> belief is.

Danny corrected me on the other thread.  For some reason I remembered
"this almost killed me" as an attempt to kill.  But my comments about
alternatives to situations of this type still apply.  And that holds
whether or not the pain inflicted is intentional.

~ CT
Danny Deger - 22 Jul 2007 19:42 GMT
On Jul 22, 12:55 pm, tdadamemd-spamblo...@excite.com wrote:
> >From catface:
snip

> 'Thunderstorm' was a metaphor.  Danny's flight lead was a person.
> Danny believes that this person tried to kill him.  If you were a
> military pilot, catface, you would understand how ludicrous this
> belief is.

This is total nonsense.  I said I thought he tried to fly a pattern
tighter than I could so I would be embarrassed by not flying a good
pattern.  I clearly stated in my book no one knew an F-4 flying into
another F-4's wake turbulence would cause a loss of control.  I didn't
think so or I wouldn't have flown into his wake turbulence.  Please
stick to the facts.

To all that don't want to find the section in my book, I have attached
the section of my book below.

> As for suffering at NASA, Danny could have easily circumvented the
> situation at several stages.  He chose to battle it head on.  He
> lost.  Big surprise.

This is true.  Up to this point I have lost.  But because NASA left a
document trail, I have a chance of exposing their misconduct and
violations of state and federal laws in how they treated me.

Danny Deger

Here is the section of my book on my near miss by flying into leads
wake turbulence.  I do NOT state I think lead was trying to kill me.

The normal way to land is what is called the overhead break.  The
number 2 plane is put on the side opposite of the break and the
formation flies down the runway at about 1,500 feet altitude.  As the
formation passes over the runway lead breaks and number 2 stays level
for a few seconds.  After the delay, number 2 breaks.
One of the rules was number 2 can not fly a pattern further from the
runway than lead.  One day this almost killed me.  Lead did a very
aggressive break.  By this I mean he makes a small/tight turn.  I
followed.    If you are too close to the runway, you can't make the
turn and you overshoot.  I knew I was closer than I ever had been in
my life, and I was going to have to make a maximum performance turn to
final.  At the proper time, I started a turn at the optimum Angle Of
Attack, AOA.  The F-4 had an audio feed back on AOA and had a nice
solid tone in the head set when on the optimum AOA.  I was inside
lead's turn to start off with, so I am out of his wake turbulence.
But, I must go right into the center of his wake turbulence to line up
on the runway.  Wake turbulence is like small horizontal tornadoes
that can cause huge roll rates if you get into one.  Normally, a
fighter can fly into another fighter's wake turbulence without any big
problems.  But lead was doing a more aggressive turn than usual which
made his wake stronger.  Then I was at a higher than normal angle of
attack with decreased my aileron effectiveness.  The end result was
when I hit his wake turbulence, I rolled instantly about 120 degrees
to the left.  I knew I was in big trouble.  Fortunately my training
and instincts kicked in.  At a high angle of attack, the F-4 does not
roll well.  I needed to get the AOA down.  To do this I pushed the
stick full forward until it hit its stop.  At the same time I gave the
plane full right rudder.  About the time my controls become effective,
I left my lead's wake turbulence and rolled quickly back to the
right.  I overshot the roll a lot and ended up in about 90 degrees of
roll to the right.  The AOA was down by now, so the ailerons start to
work.  With left aileron and left rudder I brought the plane back to
level flight and actually made a good landing without having to go
around.  The roll excursions lasted a second or two at the most and I
was still on glide slope and on the centerline of the runway.  My WSO
told me after landing he was reaching for the ejection handle as I was
fighting for control.  Before he could pull the handle, I had the
plane back under control.  I am glad he didn't have time.  At our
altitude and roll angles, we probably would not have had time for the
chutes could open before we hit the ground.
What was strange for me at the time was the lack of interest in what
happened.  We were well trained to avoid the wake of heavy airplanes,
but the general thought was the wake turbulence of another F-4 was not
dangerous.  I asked that the Tactical Air Command safety organization
be brought in to get the word out that if the pattern is flown too
aggressively, lead's wake turbulence could be deadly.  My request was
denied.  I requested the topic be brought up at the next wing safety
briefing.  Again my request was denied.  I didn't at the time
understand why loosing control in the traffic pattern would not be of
interest to the F-4 safety community.  Now I think I know why.  Leads
are not supposed to fly such a tight pattern.  He was very likely
attempting to embarrass me by flying a pattern tighter than he thought
I could.  Even if his overly aggressive pattern was not meant to
embarrass me, he was at fault for the near miss.  It wasn't my
favorite lead, John "Lips" Fraley, but it was a respected flight lead
of the squadron.  If you are part of the in crowd, you can screw up
and not be called on the mistake.  If you are not in the in crowd,
every tiny issue is blown out of proportion and used to further damage
your reputation.  Being in a fighter squadron was just like being back
in junior high.
kev9000 - 22 Jul 2007 20:19 GMT
> Pain can be inflicted.  But suffering requires the necessary
> ingredient of self pity.

Idiot.
Danny Deger - 22 Jul 2007 20:27 GMT
> > Pain can be inflicted.  But suffering requires the necessary
> > ingredient of self pity.
>
> Idiot.

I agree.  I understand this quote was over the doors of the Spanish
Inquisition :-)

Danny Deger
tdadamemd-spamblock-@excite.com - 23 Jul 2007 10:21 GMT
>From Danny Dot:
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> I agree.  I understand this quote was over the doors of the Spanish
> Inquisition :-)

On another thread, Danny, you had just thanked me for not insulting
you, yet you are quick to support someone who insults me.  Bullying
takes many forms.  It appears you are sensitive to the kind that is
directed only at you.

Now for anyone who might want an explanation of my statement being
criticized above, I will ask...

Is suffering a necessary result of pain?  The Buddha taught that
suffering was the result of being too attached to our mortal
existence.  Master Yoda taught that suffering was the result of fear,
hate and anger.  Attachment can be seen as a type of fear.  A fear of
death.  So both teachings can be seen as the same.

Many people live their lives with the belief that suffering can be
inflicted on them.  It is clear that pain can be inflicted.  Wise ones
have taught that it is only *your view* toward that pain that can turn
it into suffering.

There is also the story about Jesus when after being nailed to the
cross he died with a smile on his face.  The day before MLK was shot,
he gave a speech talking about how he was being bullied with death
threats.  He could have taken the path of fear and suffering but
instead his message was:

   "Well, I don't know what will happen now. We've got some difficult
days
    ahead. But it doesn't matter with me now. Because I've been to
the mountaintop.
    And I don't mind. Like anybody, I would like to live a long life.
Longevity has
    its place. But I'm not concerned about that now. I just want to
do God's will.
    And He's allowed me to go up to the mountain. And I've looked
over. And I've seen
    the promised land. I may not get there with you. But I want you
to know tonight,
    that we, as a people, will get to the promised land. And I'm
happy, tonight. I'm
    not worried about anything. I'm not fearing any man. Mine eyes
have seen the glory
    of the coming of the Lord."

So whether someone is driving nails into you or pumping bullets into
you or just doing things at the office to you that you don't like...
whatever pain level you are experiencing, it is your attitude toward
that pain that will determine whether it results in you suffering.

~ CT
Danny Deger - 23 Jul 2007 15:44 GMT
On Jul 23, 4:21 am, tdadamemd-spamblo...@excite.com wrote:
> >From Danny Dot:
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> takes many forms.  It appears you are sensitive to the kind that is
> directed only at you.

This is the way a "real" relationship works.  Sometimes you agree and
sometimes you don't.  Unlike the relationship with a bully that is all
negative.

BTW, did my comment cause you pain or suffering :-)

I did like the write up you give.  It is almost straight out of the
teachings of Buddha as well as the references you quote.  One of my
problems I think through the years was too much literal use of turning
the other cheek.  When working with bullies, it doesn't work when
applied literally and I now I don't think Jesus meant it as a
literally thing to do if one is working with a bully.  I now believe
it is OK to openly confront a bully.

Danny Deger
snip
tdadamemd-spamblock-@excite.com - 23 Jul 2007 16:12 GMT
>From Danny Dot:
> On Jul 23, 4:21 am, tdadamemd-spamblo...@excite.com wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> BTW, did my comment cause you pain or suffering :-)

Having an understanding why people act with a lack of kindness can
yield a response of empathy toward others instead of hurt toward
oneself.

The other way to prevent being hurt is to become callous.  But that
just turns you into a person who hurts others.

But the answer to your question is 'no'.  I feel like I understand
where you're coming from.  As for kev9k, I don't know him very well,
but I have an idea about where he's coming from as well.  I expect
that he is a person who has experienced a large dose of hurt, whether
in numerous small quantities or several large quantities.  I imagine
that he read my statement as a complete inability to relate to where
he's at.

> I did like the write up you give.  It is almost straight out of the
> teachings of Buddha as well as the references you quote.  One of my
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> literally thing to do if one is working with a bully.  I now believe
> it is OK to openly confront a bully.

I disagree with the turn-the-other-cheek teaching as well.  It is a
display that is tinged with arrogance.  I consider it healthier and
more effective to point out the cheek that was struck, because that is
where the problem occurred.  Displaying the unstruck cheek is a form
of escalation.

I agree in confronting an action that has caused you harm.  But there
are many ways to confront that makes the situation worse.  Confronting
in a manner that defuses the situation requires much more care.  And
again, if there are repeated patterns that can be predicted, then
there are ways to just avoid such problems altogether.

~ CT
Danny Deger - 23 Jul 2007 16:46 GMT
On Jul 23, 10:12 am, tdadamemd-spamblo...@excite.com wrote:

snip

>Displaying the unstruck cheek is a form
> of escalation.

We can agree on this one.  I wish my Sunday School teacher had taught
me this when I was young. I spent the first 48 years of my life
displaying the unstruck cheek and my experience is the problem
escalated.

Danny Deger
snip
Jeff Findley - 23 Jul 2007 15:58 GMT
>I think a number of you are being overly nasty in your comments
> against Danny's book draft.  This is a man who has suffered greatly at
> the hands of PEOPLE -- not thunderstorms.  People can willfully harm
> someone -- thunderstorms can't.

I'm sure this book that's based on his life hasn't been fact checked in any
way shape or form by anyone but Danny.  So, by reading this book, you're
only getting one side of the story.  Without actually talking to the very
people Danny worked with at NASA, you can't get both sides of the story, and
there are always two sides to every story with the truth somewhere
inbetween.

Jeff
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Danny Deger - 23 Jul 2007 16:57 GMT
On Jul 23, 9:58 am, "Jeff Findley" <jeff.find...@ugs.nojunk.com>
wrote:
> <i...@auraclemusic.co.uk> wrote in message
>
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> there are always two sides to every story with the truth somewhere
> inbetween.

Actually, you can read a major part of their side.  My conduct in
1999 was carefully documented by my management at the time.  I provide
a complete copy on my web site and as an appendix to in my book.  It
does show an angry employee, but not one that made open homicidal
threats which is what NASA told about me to local authorities in
1999.  I also have many documents copied and available for review.  I
would not have bothered to write the book if I didn't have
documentation.  The story is hard to believe without it.  I still find
it hard to believe an agency of the Federal government would lie to
local officials and participate in a person being denied due process.
In my recent sick leave problems, people told lie after lie, but I
didn't bother to mention them in my book.  I have attempted to make
sure my accusations of misconduct are backed up with documentation.

Danny Deger
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Jeff Findley - 23 Jul 2007 21:58 GMT
> On Jul 23, 9:58 am, "Jeff Findley" <jeff.find...@ugs.nojunk.com>
> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 29 lines]
> didn't bother to mention them in my book.  I have attempted to make
> sure my accusations of misconduct are backed up with documentation.

I've worked with at least one person who was pretty much intolerable to work
with.  After a few years of putting up with the grief that this caused me, I
talked to my manager about this employee.  It was clear that this employee
had been talked to many times, but that the company would never take steps
to terminate this employee due to fear of being sued.  The official record
never tells the whole story.

All I'm saying is that your book is obviously written from your point of
view.  As someone famous once said, "many of the truths we cling to depend
greatly on our own point of view".  :-)

Jeff
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Danny Deger - 23 Jul 2007 23:03 GMT
On Jul 23, 3:58 pm, "Jeff Findley" <jeff.find...@ugs.nojunk.com>
wrote:
snip

> All I'm saying is that your book is obviously written from your point of
> view.  As someone famous once said, "many of the truths we cling to depend
> greatly on our own point of view".  :-)
>
> Jeff

The last I checked, all books are written from the point of view of
the author :-)

Danny Deger
Jeff Findley - 24 Jul 2007 18:21 GMT
> On Jul 23, 3:58 pm, "Jeff Findley" <jeff.find...@ugs.nojunk.com>
> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> The last I checked, all books are written from the point of view of
> the author :-)

Certainly, but if you want your book classified as non-fiction, it's not a
bad thing to run it by an independent fact checker who may actually want to
call up some of the people you mention in your book.  Of course, there are
some really bad books out there which are "based on actual events".  It's
never a black or white issue.

Jeff
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Derek Lyons - 24 Jul 2007 07:56 GMT
>I think a number of you are being overly nasty in your comments
>against Danny's book draft.  This is a man who has suffered greatly at
>the hands of PEOPLE -- not thunderstorms.  People can willfully harm
>someone -- thunderstorms can't.

This is a man who _claims_ to have so suffered.  (And it would be
interesting to know why you take his claim at face value.)  But his
own writings and statements show him to be more than a little
egotistical and self serving - which makes taking such claims at face
value a little difficult.  The same writing and statements show a
persistent pattern of blaming others for every event, and very little
taking responsibility for his own actions - - which makes taking such
claims at face value a little difficult.

>I would submit that you look closely at your own motivations for
>discounting what he has to say.  Are you current NASA employees?  Are
>you afraid that your world view will disintegrate if you acknowledge
>that such things as bullying exist?

Nobody here has taken the position that workplace bullying doesn't
exist.  Nice strawman though.

D.
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Jeff Findley - 24 Jul 2007 18:26 GMT
>>I think a number of you are being overly nasty in your comments
>>against Danny's book draft.  This is a man who has suffered greatly at
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> taking responsibility for his own actions - - which makes taking such
> claims at face value a little difficult.

Yep.  Many events in Danny's book start with him thinking he may have
screwed up and caused some mishap, only to have the story unfold in such a
way that he realized that he couldn't possibly have been wrong and the
mishap was entirely someone else's fault.  Following that, there is often a
continuation of the thread where he trys to tell higher-ups this fact, but
for one reason or another, they don't listen.

There certainly is a pattern going on in that book.

Jeff
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