> No, a newly formed sun would be glowing already from the
> heat released due to gravitational contraction; it would
> be bright even before fusion kicked in.
It's worth mentioning that newly formed stars are surrounded by lots
of dust, so while the surface is bright, it can't be seen in visible
light unless you happen to be right beside it. (Don't try this at
home! :-) ) Newly formed stars show up just fine in infrared light,
though.
> Remember, it's the pressure and heat at the core due to
> gravitational contraction that inititally gets the temperature up
> high enough for fusion to begin.
Right.
> Of course the sun will get much brighter once the fusion
> process kicks in,
Not so. All that happens is that the contraction stops. The nuclear
reactions act as a thermostat, keeping the core temperature where it
was when the reactions started. If the core got hotter, its pressure
would go up, and it would expand and cool off.
> ...there will still be infalling material...
Yes, as the mass grows, additional central pressure is needed to
support the additional mass. The resulting contraction causes the
core to get hotter, but not much because the nuclear reaction rates
are such a strong function of temperature.
> ... and some of this will be blasted away by the newly ignited sun,
> thus defining its surface.
The question of what stops the infall is a topic of active research.
Despite several good suggestions, I think it's fair to say no one
knows the answer. Part of the answer seems to involve collimated
jets; something like the solar wind may also play a role.

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